She needs to know before she grows up

To my darling daughter...

I will start by emphasizing on how important it is to build a good relationship with your body for it is the walls of your home. It takes daily work. You should be committed because, walking into your true nature and wholly accepting who you are, means stepping into a happier and a mighty authentic way of living. Accept who you are. Especially if you're different.

Sweetie, please do not be around people who self-destruct. Law #10 of "48 laws of power" states : Avoid the unhappy and the unlucky. Why? because it is infectious. Negativity is infectious. People who self destruct draw misfortune on themselves and they will also draw it on you. Be selective of who is in your circle. I would rather you have four quarters than a hundred pennies.

Hear me clearly, you will NOT burn down your castles for boys with paper crowns. Boys stained by this ugly, reeking , undesirable traits that this modern society seems to be culturing. Boys who do not understand the value of a true woman and refer to us as useless and replaceable objects and in turn raise young girls who do not know their true worth and cannot differentiate between abuse and love, insults and compliments. It is my wish that you find soul who will protect and take care of you, allow you to build something out of yourself and encourage you to reach your ultimate limits. The epitome of your existence. I know such men exist. I was raised by one.

Do not be a stupid woman. It is a sin to be stupid woman. You will bring shame to the community, to your family and to your parents. Read books, listen to current affairs, interact with different people, listen to different ideologies and become versatile. Grow. Grow your mind daily. Do what you need to do to ensure that there is growth. For this is the only insurance against stupidity

Lastly, do not expect much... from people, from situations, from life... it is not smart to expect too much. Understand that God is on your side and when you move the universe moves with you.

If your reading this whether you are ten years old or a hundred, I want you to be comfortable confiding in me, about money or men, your dreams and fears. I don't want you feeling like you need to make friends to feel like you have a family. I am your friend, I am your family. I am everything you will ever need, all in one.

BELIEVE.